Comments on: Love Marriage vs Arranged Marriage

By: CremsweermSom

CremsweermSom — Thu, 04 Jun 2009 02:42:56 +0000

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By: shabz

shabz — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 16:57:39 +0000

I think….for any relationship to be sucessful whether in love marriage or arrange they shud be thirst of companionship…..moreover they shoud be more understanding,loyalty,caring and compatibility between them.If these qualities are in them then i surely tel you all it will be the heaven on the earth for them…..Be it love marriage or arrange marriage,at the end what matters is the happiness…n …happy life..

By: deepak pandey

deepak pandey — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 10:13:16 +0000

i think it depends on the environment and culture a person has experienced. but speaking truly i think arrange marriage is better than a love marriage..

By: anti

anti — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 09:02:48 +0000

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By: shazibstar

shazibstar — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 17:43:50 +0000

I LIKE TO GO WITH ARRANGE MARRIAGE.BECAUSE IN ARRANGE MARRIAGE THE TIME AND OPPERTUNITY SHOULD BE GIVEN TO UNDERSTAND EACH OYHER.YOU CAN DO LOVE AFTER THE MARRIAGE.IN MY VIEWS IT IS BEST.

By: shazibstar

shazibstar — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 17:37:49 +0000

By: Guru Panguji

Guru Panguji — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 02:35:40 +0000

Hey yo whoa.. Shaadi time huh !

By: Ms.Imperfect

Ms.Imperfect — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 14:02:20 +0000

Oh god! Any marriage is fine! I just wish it happens in the first place!!!

By: raja raman

raja raman — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 09:18:14 +0000

Those inconsistent people who dont have the guts to love , will always try to say that arranged marriage is best..

By: deepak choudhary

deepak choudhary — Thu, 19 Jun 2008 21:57:03 +0000

Thanks to the readers who are reading it.
In my opinion arrange marriage is better than the love marriage if it is done happily by the side of husband and wife(not are forced to do the marriage by the family members of any side).
I want to add that in case of arrange marriage the opportunity and time should be given to the boy and girl so that they can understand each other very well.

By: Ms.Imperfect

Ms.Imperfect — Tue, 03 Jun 2008 04:57:54 +0000

I still think you have an unfair advantage here

By: Guru Panguji

Guru Panguji — Sun, 01 Jun 2008 15:38:00 +0000

Hehe Welcome to Nostalgia. On the right, we have old posts and comments and on the left, feelings associated with them! Please feel free to make any stops as and when necessary! Any questions, throw in a comment !

By: overclockedfragger

overclockedfragger — Sun, 01 Jun 2008 15:22:16 +0000

I came and read a comment I posted 2 years back.

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By: Guru Panguji

Guru Panguji — Sat, 31 May 2008 13:55:27 +0000

Hey I just pick the right ones ! Not only that, this is open for discussion ! See made you wanna comment just on the phenomenon!!!

By: Ms.Imperfect

Ms.Imperfect — Sat, 31 May 2008 13:23:18 +0000

How did you manage to get so many comments on a post that was just a fwd?

By: udayaraj

udayaraj — Sat, 31 May 2008 08:03:10 +0000

i agree with surendra

By: lui89

lui89 — Sat, 31 May 2008 05:41:31 +0000

i think arange marriage is very good.it usually parent choice with their friend son.i think all parent will choose the best for their son.many people kill their self because disspoint with their lover.for me it better to get in love after married.

By: Nasratbaloch

Nasratbaloch — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 07:49:11 +0000

love is a life ———————-.
how u can say that love arrange is not good…………
do love and get love one day……………

By: Nasratbaloch

Nasratbaloch — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 07:39:36 +0000

I thing love marriage and arrange marriage both r good good in his position.It on person how he/she pass has live ,,,,

By: richa

richa — Mon, 31 Mar 2008 19:03:18 +0000

According to me love marriage is much better dan arrange marriage as in love marriage u get to share every aspect of love it gives u a sense of fulfillment,it offers more independence and freedom..it requires minimum adjustments.
AT D END I WLD LIKE TO SAY “Happy marriages begin when we marry the ones we love, and they blossom when we love the ones we marry.”

By: ABDULLAHI

ABDULLAHI — Wed, 05 Dec 2007 15:02:19 +0000

actually in my view i see love as nothing but diturbing life.

By: kongku

kongku — Wed, 14 Nov 2007 22:57:27 +0000

i lik love marriage ,bea. love is dream & marriage is reality and when dream and raelity comes to life any one will be happyand arrange mariage is nothing more.

By: sarabjeet lakhowal

sarabjeet lakhowal — Sun, 28 Oct 2007 15:24:37 +0000

Love marriages are much better than arrange marriages as the individuals know each other too better. In arrange marriage a person may suffer with certain doubts ragarding his/her partner that anything may not get consealed but in love marriage much of the things are previously cleared.

By: i agree with all

i agree with all — Mon, 21 May 2007 17:34:46 +0000

i agree with all but i prefer arranged because u dont no the person and its almost like a roller coaser ride

By: Nandan Kumar

Nandan Kumar — Wed, 16 May 2007 18:50:59 +0000

I totally agree with Surendra..coz he’s absolutely right. Marriage depends on both persons understandings.. so i think ‘ Every love marriage shud b arranged’

By: surendra kumar

surendra kumar — Sat, 20 Jan 2007 05:35:31 +0000

i think it all depends on the individual who opts for love/arranged marriage.we cannot say which one is going to b gud.bcoz marriage is the binding of two persons and which remains for ever.so each person should live for other.some think arranged marriages can survive them better.but its not all true,we c even arranged marriages get divorced.also we can stand by the love marriages.they also tend to fail sometimes if their is no gud cooperation b/w both da persons..but love marriages offer gud understanding as there ll b oppurtunity 2 know each other which is not so much possible in arranged ones..finally i would like to say “life is to love and to b loved”..so for any kind one opt one shd keep loving and loved,,surya

By: jean weaver

jean weaver — Thu, 18 Jan 2007 19:36:49 +0000

theres nothing about how many people get divorced!

im trying to do my school project!

ps-family guy is awsome

By: lri

lri — Mon, 08 Jan 2007 22:49:35 +0000

Firstly you say love marriage is marriage, you have hormones interfering. How about this…the guy I want to marry, I know him and we were good friends for one year, without any attraction. Later we got attracted, and became bfgf.

Secondly, parents acting with logic? MY parents’ logic is this: this guy has a good name in society, so if my daughter marries their son, we would look good in the social ladder. And compatibility? Their idea of compatibility is this… you marry anybody, just adjust and accomodate to him. After all, do this for parents..they are the ones that brought you up.

And why cant I marry the guy I want? Oh, because (although he speaks the same language, and follows the same social norms) he is from a different caste. And do they bother examining him? NO.

Man, am I glad my parents love me SO much!!!

By: drjoker

drjoker — Wed, 13 Dec 2006 17:19:55 +0000

You might be surprised to find that the odds are against a love marriage working out. 50 to 60 percent of all love marriages in the USA end in divorce within the first 2 years. However, only 5 percent of arranged marriages end in divorce. This is because arranged marriages are not made of hormones. They are arranged with care by parents according to compatibility of the bride and groom. I had a classmate in medical school who got an arranged marriage. I thought it was weird until I ended up in a bad love marriage. She is still happily married. None of the other doctors at the hospital are happily married. Only one doctor, an Indian guy who had an arranged marriage is happily married. It is best that you marry someone who you do not love, but will grow to love because you’ve chosen your mate logically without hormones interfering.

Furthermore, many foreign women have customs that are much better than American girls. Not that they are better than American girls, but just better at dating. Indians are allowed a few chaperoned dates before marriage. The marriage is arranged, but you can refuse and ask your parents to choose another for you. During these dates, most Indian girls will tell her prospective husband her faults and ask the guy what his faults are. These girls do not try to trap a guy into marriage by putting her best foot forward. Instead, they try their best to be sure that they can live with each others’ faults before getting married. American girls will try to trap you in a marriage with hot sex and seduction. They will never reveal their faults before marriage.

Only 20 percent of Filipina marriages with American men end in divorce. This is higher than the 5 percent Indian divorce rate, but still lower than the American divorce rate of 50-60 percent. You might be surprised to find that you are incredibly lucky to have a love marriage that works because, statistically, arranged marriages are at an advantage.

Yes, love marriages can work, too (I am an optimist). Since I am not Indian, I cannot have an arranged marriage. So, I will do the following to cut hormones out of the dating equation in order to make a rational decision about who I will marry. I will not have sex before marriage. If I get horny, I will have sex with a prostitute. I will have a pernuptial agreement to make sure we understand exactly what to expect of each other. I will serreptitiously use a voice activated lie detector on her. I will investigate her with a private detective. The latter two may seem paranoid, but you might be surprised to find that it is necessary (though not foolproof) to root out the liers. Most western women will go through ridiculous lengths to attract a husband. They wear makeup, they’ll say almost anything, etc. Muslim women will hide their face (or at least their hair) and bare their faults at pre-marriage chaperoned dates. To me, makeup is a form of visual dishonesty. So, what’s to stop her from verbal dishonesty?

Which brings me to my next pet peeve…. When women look out for number one, it’s, “You go girl!” When men do it, we are “chauvinist pigs.” I am not a chauvinist because I do not stop women from looking out for number one. I just get pissed off when others stop me from looking out for number one. Howevever, that’s a atory for another day….

By: afsheenrizvi

afsheenrizvi — Sun, 10 Dec 2006 09:52:43 +0000

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